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  1. Help Center
  2. RSVP & invitations
  3. Who sees a question, who answers it, and when it appears

Who sees a question, who answers it, and when it appears

Show a question to selected guests only, ask it once or for every person, or only after a certain answer.

The bar under every question of the RSVP form has three separate settings. If a question doesn’t show up as you expect, check all three.

Who can see it

Click Visible for everyone on the bar. In Who can see this question? choose Everyone or Selected guests only and tick the guests. Those guests see the question only when they open the website with their personal link. Showing a question to selected guests only needs Premium.

Who answers it

The Who should answer this question? icon decides who the question is asked for when one guest replies for a family or with a plus-one: Everyone (each person), Primary guest only (only the person filling in the form) or Family members and plus-ones only. With Primary guest only, Use the same answer for everyone in the group copies the answer to everyone in the group.

The Who should answer this question? window with the three choices and their icons

When it appears

The branch icon opens When should this question appear?. Click Add condition, choose the question it depends on, then Show this question when… or Hide this question when… and the answer. For a text question, the condition is met as soon as the guest types something. With several conditions, any one of them is enough.

When should this question appear? with one condition: show the dietary question when the answer to Will you be attending? is Yes, ceremony and reception

The other icons

  • The circle switches between one answer and several answers.
  • The asterisk makes the question required — it must be answered whenever it is shown.
  • The bin deletes the question after you confirm.

Tips and important notes

  • Put the questions that others depend on higher in the form.
  • To show a whole section of the website to selected guests, use the section’s own settings — see Extra events.
  • A condition without an answer chosen keeps the question hidden from everyone.
  • Check with the personal links of an invited guest, a guest who isn’t invited, and a family.

Updated November 3, 2026

Related articles

  • Set up your RSVP formEdit the questions of the RSVP form on your website, add your own, and choose who can answer and until when.
  • Let one guest answer for the whole familyGroup a family in your guest list and let one person reply for everyone through their personal link.
  • Extra events: a rehearsal dinner, a brunch, an after-partyInvite some guests to another event, show them its details and collect their replies separately.

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